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7 Habits of Creative People

In the previous article “Recognizing the drawback Creativity” has been discussed various types of obstacle creativity (blocks creativity), which are both internal, such as obstacle paradigm, paradigm, confidence, fear, motivasional, habits, or of an external obstacle, such as social, organizational, and leadership . The good news, experts emphasize creativity that everyone has creative potential and creativity itself can be learned and improved. Indeed, factors such as knowledge, control techniques, practical experience, and motivation is very important role in opening and developing the potential for creativity. However, no less important is the development of habits that stimulate positive way of thinking or creative action. Read more…

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Don’t Sink Your Success by Ignoring Relationships

John Paul Jones is regarded as The Father of the American Navy, and rightly so given his heroic courage in battle and his devotion to America’s struggle for independence. Yet sadly, Jones alienated himself from the country he loved, dying penniless and alone in France at the age of 45. Why did the war hero’s story end so dismally? The answer is simple: John Paul Jones never valued relationships.

Talent and Temper

John Paul Jones was born in Scotland under the given name of John Paul. He achieved notoriety as a 21-year old sailor when he safely piloted a ship back to port after its captain and first mate had succumbed to yellow fever. The feat won him the respect of the ship’s owners, who made him the vessel’s captain and gave him a commission on its profits.

John Paul’s success in Scotland was short-lived, though. Soon after being named as captain, he became enraged with a sailor and demanded that the man be whipped. The flogging ordered by John Paul was so severe that the man later died from his wounds. Although he avoided criminal charges and kept his command, John Paul’s reputation never recovered, nor did he learn his lesson.

A few years later, John Paul slaughtered a mutinous shipmate after a dispute over wages. Rather than stand trail for his actions, he fled to America, changing his name to John Paul Jones. Thus began a familiar trend, Jones’ spectacular skill and talent would gain him renown, but then his relational incompetence would undermine the success. Read more…

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Recognizing the drawback Creativity

Creativity is the heart of innovation. Without creativity there will be no innovation. Conversely, the higher the creativity, the way to the increasingly wide innovation as well. Unfortunately, a lot of illusion about creativity. For example, creativity is only owned a few talented people. More kaprah wrong again, creativity is nature since birth. John Kao, author of the book Jamming: The Art and Discipline in Creativity Bussiness, (1996), disprove this opinion. “We all have the creative ability of attention. And the true creativity can be taught and learned,” said Kao. Read more…

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FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

Don’t cry over anyone who won’t cry over you.

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget. Read more…

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Life Is Beautiful

We should believe that everything in life is a lesson. There is an opportunity to learn from everything. And when you’re faced with a hard situation, think about what you can learn from it and how you can benefit from it. Nothing should be totally bad, that’s not the way is supposed to be. No one’s life is perfect and no one turns out exactly the way they wanted or expected, but life shouldn’t be a burden or something that you dread.

You’re only young once, so you should enjoy it, and you shouldn’t be in such a hurry to grow up. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger and everything that you do and all of the decisions that you make, the big ones and the small ones, are all important. Read more…

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EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL :When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You (part 2)

Emotional blackmail is very common. It is no more than emotional manipulation when someone’s threat is the only reason you end up doing something you didn’t want to do. Here are a few examples of emotional blackmail and what you should do about it.

1. Determine if it is a request or a demand.

A demand is when someone insists that it be done their way and their way only. The task must be done under their conditions or they will either punish themselves or you for it not happening. For example, a husband wants to go fishing. The wife starts crying and screaming that he never wants to spend time with her and that she will pack her things and leave if he goes. The husband feels so bad that he calls off his fishing trip, and stays home. Emotional blackmail. Read more…

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EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL :When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You (part 1)

When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You it means that you are totally in emotional blackmail condition.

Some people overpower us and leave us feeling defeated. Why? How? What can we do about it? These are the central questions Sof Emotional Blackmail all about.

Emotional blackmail is a powerful form of manipulation in which people close to us threaten, either directly or indirectly, to punish us if we don’t do what they want… Our blackmailers make it nearly impossible to see how they’re manipulating us, because they lay down a thick fog that obscures their actions. We’d fight back if we could, but they ensure that we literally can’t see what is happening to us. Read more…

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